SPOUSE/PARTNER – How did you two sexy people meet? How do you juggle private romance time with the sexy lifestyle?
THEMSELVES – People really like talking about themselves so embrace this. You look great tonight. How did you start in the lifestyle? What’s your favourite swinger event?
Which other sexy places do you like? People love to talk about themselves. When in doubt, ask them an open-ended question about themselves.
RECREATION – Are you following the game on TV tonight? Which teams do you like? Have you been to any music concerts or seen a movie recently?
EXERCISE – You both look super. How did you get into such great shape? What is your workout routine?
TRAVEL – Have you been to any of the swinger cruises or swinger trips? We are looking for tips on where to travel for lifestyle fun. What swinger trips are most interesting to you?
CLOTHES – Hi, we love your shoes. Where did you get them? Any tips for how to build a better wardrobe for the lifestyle?
HOBBY – Cool looking drink/beer, what does it taste like? Do you like mixology/ microbrews/cooking?
So now you know what to say, but what about what not to say?
Don’t engage in politics or religion – Any controversial topic is a fast way to kill a sexy vibe. Many swingers are religious, so it is best for everyone to just believe in what they want. Change the conversation or just excuse yourself to get another drink. Even if you are both swingers in the same political party, you could be opposed on specific topics or the other swingers around you might not agree. Swinging is about coming together for sexy time, not dividing people into a controversial debate.
Don’t get too specific – Some swingers may not want to get too detailed for fear of outing themselves. Stick with general questions and avoid specific questions. For example, you can ask what industry they work in, but it’s usually best if you don’t ask which company they work for. Being too nosey or creepy can be unsexy.
Don’t share other people’s info – Trust is super important to swingers. If you blab sensitive stuff about other swingers to your new swinging friends, you are basically telling them you can’t be trusted. You can share stories but leave out any names or other identifying info. Demonstrate to your new friends that you respect other people’s secrets and are trustworthy.
Don’t bring up kids – We all love our kids and have a bunch of funny kid stories. Save those stories for your vanilla friends or your long time swinger friends. When trying to generate a hot sexy vibe with new swingers you just met, talking about kids and parenting can be a big buzz kill.
Ok, that is a lot to remember. Don’t stress, there aren’t any swinger police that enforce these tips. These are just helpful suggestions to increase your chances of success when chatting with swingers.
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